You need lots of "friction smoothers," to share your life with another person, and this issue is filled with them, gathered from interviews with experts in the field, as well as dozens of married couples. The issue culminates in a story on the marriage between Chief and Isabel Myers, and the friendship between Jung and Freud.

"Js, try not to make demands; it causes Ps to feel caged. Instead, put your question in more of a data collecting mode: 'What are the pros and cons of our getting married next spring?' You're more likely to get a little closure if you begin with an opening."